Posted: 11:55 AM - Aug 15, 2010
There is no doubt in my mind that my ancestor:Unfortunately, I did not have the chance to exchange information directly with the late Harold Jean Bolen of GA. And I would have asked some direct & hard questions.
Our common ancestors were Reeves Bolen & Durainey Carrington. He descended from his eldest son John W. Bolen and my great-grandmother Dessie G. Bolen from his youngest son Sion M. Bolen.
When I first started to collect information about my great-grandmother Dessie Green Bolen I ran into his material:that the Bolen of Henderson Co. TN were descendants of the Bolling of VA (descendants of Pocahontas). As another researcher told me "he so wanted to be related Pocahontas that he just made up material about the family in North Carolina down from VA." The "Professional Genealogist" who he had hired stopped supplying him material when he saw him twisting, changing, deleting etc....material which did not fit with what he wanted to believe.
There are a lot of other researches (mostly living in the South) who have also supplied materials to others trying to connect their Bowling, Bolen etc...to the Bolling family of VA. The Collection of Papers called "Phelps Works" you can order all on film through L.D.S. library.
Well we now have D.N.A test and the Bolling family of VA has a rather large project collecting samples. I do not know if any of my male Bolen have been tested, but I am sure they are not related to the group that H.J. Bolen has spread information. Most likely they came down from MD into Granville Co. NC.
His materials show up in local newspapers and into others personal libraries. He was going to publish his works, but died before it could be completed, called "A Family History 1476-1976"
I realize it is not good to "speak ill of the dead", but he wasted a lot of my time and money collecting information about the Bolling of VA. Why should I sit by and let others waste their time & money as well.
My cousin from TN send me some picture of the Bolen of Henderson Co. TN that belong to the descendants of John W. Bolen and some could have had "non-white" blood lines, but they would not have been from Pocahontas !!! Perhaps in the future Mitochondrial DNA test might shed light on this mytery.
Reeves Bolen was born in 1 Dec 1818 in Orange Co. NC m. 1838 in Henderson Co. TN, court house record destroy, to Durainey Carrington born 15 Sep 1820 Orange Co. NC. He died 1864 Henderon Co. TN. She died 1 Apr 1851, both are buried in Carrington Family Burial Ground. My distant cousin Sue Stewart spend her own monies & time to fix up the family grave yard. So we know where the bodies are buried!!!.
From census information in Henderson Co. TN matches the year of his birth in 1818 and he had a penny which he carried with him, because it had his birth year on it. So that is the fact his birth year was 1818 and the fact is he married Durainey Carrington.
It is know that Durainey Carrington parents were Sion Carrington & Jemima Cozart, they removed from Orange Co. NC to Henderson Co. TN, leaving their daughter's "sweet heart" in NC, said Reeves Bolen.
He as a young man followed the above family into NC, leaving his family in Orange Co. NC.
Now here is the problem, since Reeves Bolen was just a young man in NC, he owned no property nor was he listed on any census as head of household. I just have the word of my late cousin H.J. Bolen that his parents were John Bowling & Martha Mangum. And said H.J. Bolen recorded the names of his siblings from the daughter of said Reeves, but I just have his word.
Said H.J. Bolen did meet with the descendants of Willis Bowling, eldest son of John & Marth (Mangum) Bowling, they seem to agree they were cousins. But these two men were part of the farce trying to connect our Bolen with Pocohontas. So the issue of "trust" comes into the picture.
Now, if I could get one of the sons of Sion M. Bolen to be test, that test would at least tell me if my line fits the profile already submitted by two sons of John & Martha Bowling.
Now along comes the e-mail by Franklin Bolen, who has submitted a D.N.A. on file Bolling D.N.A. project.
He stated that:
1. John Bowling died 1814 Granville Co. VA. and one of his son named
2. Wm. Reeves born 1815, d. 1864 in Henderson Co. TN married to Durainey Carrington, buried in Carrington Family Graveyard in Henderson Co. TN.
Now is silly to think that there existed in the U.S two couples:
Reeves Bolen born 1818 m. Durainey Carrington died in Henderson Co. VA buried in Carrington Cemetery
and
Wm. Reeves Bolen born 1815 m. Durainey Carrington died in Henderson Co. VA buried in Carrington Cemetery.
So Franklin Bolen has the name wrong it is Reeves not Wm. Reeves Bolen and he was born in 1818 not in 1815. Now the problem becomes if he is right about John death date as 1814, said John could not be the father of my Reeves Bolen.
Since he was wrong about the name & birth year, I think he was also wrong about the death date of John Bowling. The John Bowling (father of Reeves) died c1839, his father was the one who died 1814.
Will be seeking out more documents.